"Love is indeed a word worn out of use, What most of us think (admit it or not) is that whenever we feel that 'kilig' factor means we love the person already. And that is the major reason why most of us fail the relationship we've made with the person we 'love'... We should not rely solely by sparks and magical feelings coz loving someone is not always about fairytales and fantasies, it's about truth and reality...........

And most of all love is supposed to make you happy ...........NOT STUPID!!!!!!!!"

Very well said....my dear "own self"